Three days ago I had one of those days that brings unexpected emotions and makes you reflect on the connections we form with people, often without even realizing it.
It started with lunch with a former employee I hadn’t seen in a while. During our conversation, she said something that really stayed with me: she wanted to stay in touch with friends and people from her past, even if it’s just now and then. Her reasoning was simple but powerful: “You never know what’s going to happen. One day they’re here, and the next they’ve moved away, or worse, they’ve passed on.” Her words hit home, reminding me how fragile life is and how important it is to stay connected, even in small ways, with the people who are important to us.
That conversation was still on my mind later in the day when I got some sad news. A client I had worked with recently, passed away after her battle with cancer.
When we did the shoot, she told me she was in the middle of treatment, but her outlook was so positive. She was making plans and staying busy, full of hope and determination. So, when I got the news, it hit me harder than I expected. In portrait photography, you don’t just take pictures; you form connections.
That’s one of the profound things about portraiture. It’s not just about creating a beautiful image—it’s about the people, the moments, and the memories you’re preserving. It has reminded me of one of the reasons why I do what I do. A portrait, especially one made with care, becomes a way to keep someone’s spirit alive long after they’re gone. It’s more than a photo—it’s a legacy.
We all have people who touch our lives, whether for years or just a short time. As I move forward, I’m reminded to cherish those relationships and appreciate the privilege of creating portraits that will be treasured for generations.
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